When Older Women Date Younger Men
Also, men over 35 don’t date women in their early 30s if they have better options.
The only men this commenter has access to are lower tier guys who can’t attract younger women.
In my post “5 Signs A Woman Has Hit The Wall”, I explored five unmistakeable indicators of a woman that has passed her prime in her ability to get men.
In that post, I explained, and it bears repeating, that The Wall doesn’t mean that a woman is receiving ZERO male attention.
Any woman with a wet spot between her legs will always have some man sniffing after her. I know women in their 60s that have suitors, usually men in their 70s, offering them dates.
They will complain, but women love any kind of attention.
The problem with being post-wall is that the woman can’t get the type of men she wants.
Past Her Prime
As we’ve all observed, young women have all the power in the dating market.
In her early years, she is able to command expensive gifts, lavish trips, fancy dinner dates, even marriage and big diamond ring, from men of any age.
Since it takes time for men to build themselves into the success objects that women desire, this means that most women date older, more established men.
Even a 15 year old girl will choose an older 18 year old, over the squeaky voiced, inexperienced boys her own age.
The older male has a car, and a job that allows him to buy her movie tickets and ice cream. He is more established in the social hierarchy, and is also taller and more physically developed than young boys that are her age mates.
Throughout their entire sexual peak of teen years, until about 28, women never look twice at younger men.
At 15, she dates high school seniors.
In college, she pursues older graduate students, or men already in a professional career, who have apartments and money that the college boys don’t.
In her twenties, she desires men in their 30s and even 40s. Women this age have dalliances with their boss at her corporate job, sleeps around with married men, drug dealers, and bartenders, often twice her age.
Younger Men Are Her Only Option
If dating younger men was some kind of laudable achievement, women would do it when they are at their most desirable, in their teens and 20s.
However, this NEVER happens.
At a minimum, women typically pair with men at least 3- 5 years older than she is.
It’s extremely rare to see an attractive, young woman with an even younger man.
This is no surprise.
Younger men simply have none of the qualities that women find attractive.
For the most part, young men are financially strained.
They live on futons and ramen noodles, work menial jobs, and are emotionally immature compared to the sauve, older guys that catch her eye.
They drive beat up, old cars, not the shiny sports coupes that older men can afford.
Worse, younger men lack the confidence and sexual experience that women desire.
Women will SHARE a man that they know is sleeping with other women, before they will choose a shy, “nice guy” that no other woman wants.
Why, then, do we see over age women bragging about relationships with young, inexperienced men, like it’s some kind of achievement?
Penis Envy
Far from being about “equality”, modern day feminism is just a manifestation of women’s crippling penis envy.
It was never about equal rights.
Instead, modern women want to be just like men. They eschew their natural female role as nurturers and caregivers, to chase useless degrees and unfulfilling careers- for no other reason than they want to copy men.
All of the natural feminine traits that women used to aspire to, being soft, demure, keeping a clean home, being a submissive wife, are shunned today.
Modern women hate being women, and so, try to imitate traditionally male qualities, for example, beating their chest, claiming to be “strong and independent”.
Tradition
Youth and beauty are qualities that men prize in a sexual partner.
Women traditionally chose men that would be good providers, who exhibited stability, resourcefulness, and the ability to be good husbands and fathers.
This resulted in the solid nuclear families, safe neighborhoods, and, most importantly, healthy children of the past.
For thousands of years, women, with the help of their families, primarily selected men for their ability to provide for a family, first and foremost.
See my post “The ‘Red Pill’ Was Common Sense”.
Superficial qualities, like six pack abs, were not even considered.
She knew that her youth and fertility was her ONE chance at securing a mate to provide for, and protect, her and her future children.
Lying to Women
Unfortunately, women today are the victims of vicious outright lies.
Propagandists, who only want to sell them expensive abortions, cosmetics, and vacations, have constructed an alternate reality where men and women are exactly the same.
Within this reality, women are told they can sleep around like (some) men do, without any feelings or consequences.
Feminism devalues traditionally feminine qualities, like chastity and wholesomeness, so they also choose partners the way that men do, for physical attractiveness, rather than stability or ability to provide.
The only reason older women brag about dating younger partners, is because men do.
Everybody knows she is only parading the broke 20-something year old around because she has no other options.
Men her age, who she had overlooked for her ENTIRE LIFE, now worked their way up.
Those men have attained success, and all the rewards that come with it: social status, nice cars, and disposable income, homes, and more.
Older men are now at THEIR peak desirability.
Spoiled for choice, successful older men typically choose young women, who are attracted to their confidence, maturity, and money.
A Perfect Match
Everyone knows that women don’t prefer younger men.
Women never even look at men younger than they are, with less money, less social status, less experience, and less money, until they run out of options.
Younger men are happy for the chance to get some attention, since women their age are chasing older guys with resources and status.
I dated a woman that was 30 for over a year, when I was 19. She had to sneak me into bars to be able to drink with her.
A few years ago, I dated a woman of 43 when I was 36.
I wrote about that experience in “5 Surprises From Dating A 40 Year Old Feminist”.
At 19, college girls my age looked right through me, but the older woman was happy to have a young sex toy to tease and teach in bed.
At 36, I was in a boring corporate job, skinny fat, and struggling financially.
I occasionally dated younger women, but they often had better options. On the other had, the older woman I dated pursued me, showing interest that I struggled to get from younger, more attractive women.
Conclusion
Skinny, unaccomplished, and broke, young men are invisible to the partners they want.
Right along with them, are bitter, older women who can no longer compete with younger women for successful, handsome men.
Together at the bottom of the barrel, older women and younger men find each other.
They’re a perfect match.
-Solitary Beast