Femininity Is Youth

Recently, I’ve been hanging out with a quirky, cute woman in her early 20s.

She came over one evening and I made her dinner. She played with my dog, and sat at my kitchen table, telling me about her life.

This woman is cute, as I said, not necessarily “hot”, or “beautiful”, although she has the potential.

She’s petite, with a tight little body, shapely ass, and the athletic legs of a runner.

Her style is alternative: piercings, a few small tattoos, vintage clothes.

Picture a typical Starbucks barista, or cashier at a vegan bakery, that’s what she looks like.

Cute, definitely doable, but not drop dead gorgeous.

Dinner

I bumped a throwback rap album in the background as I diced up vegetables, and whipped up a sauce. I have a colorful apron that a former girlfriend bought me, an excellent gift because I love to cook.

Women love it.

Something about a muscular, bearded, blue collar guy, in an apron always turns them on.

As I sliced and diced, I let her talk.

On a date, the woman should be doing 80%- 90% of the talking at all times. This is textbook Corey Wayne, and part of my “2L Strategy.

See my posts “How to Get Girls: 3 Books to Improve Your Dating Life” and “How to Keep Sex Casual When Women Want to Be Serious”.)

So my date was blabbing on and on about herself. She works part time in Whole Foods… she wants to be a hairstylist… she just got back from a family vacation in Jamaica.

I listened intently, watching her.

I was trying to decide whether or not I wanted to sleep with her.

The more she talked, the more I liked her.

I could tell she was trying to sound serious and grown up.

It was cute that she was trying to impress me, a mature, older man.

Dinner was just about ready when I walked to the liquor cabinet, and returned with a bottle of whiskey and two cocktail glasses.

“Whiskey?”, I raised an eyebrow.

She hesitated, then said enthusiastically, “…Sure!”

I slipped two cubes of ice in each glass and poured us both a finger of whiskey.

As I handed her the glass, she said sheepishly, “Don’t be offended if I make a face. I like liquor but it burns when I drink it straight”.

Something about her sweet little face made my dick jump.

I definitely wanted to fuck her.

Her innocence, naivete, and bubbly giggles were turning me on like crazy, much more than I have experienced in a long while.

I was recently in a one year relationship with a woman in her mid-30s. (Read about that in “How to Break Up With Your Girlfriend”).

She was nice, but I never got aroused at the kitchen table listening to her ramble.

My former girlfriend was feminine and submissive to me, but this was something different.

The youthful energy of my date sparked a reaction that surprised even me.

I started thinking about a quote I heard recently on one of my favorite Youtube channels, 1st Man, by author and entrepreneur, Kris Sturmey. He said, “Masculinity is age”.

I completely agree.

The maturity, confidence, and strength of masculinity are built over time.

At 38, I’m more calm, centered, and stoic- more masculine, than I was even 3 years ago, at 35.

I continue to grow in those characteristics, and others that make men desirable, such as being financially successful, gaining status, building a profitable business- which is why I was sitting at my kitchen table across from a woman 15 years my junior.

Conversely, the charm of femininity is embodied by youth: tenderness, warmth, naivete.

Older women lose their femininity as they age, no matter what they do.

The slings and arrows of life turn their playful, warm hearts cold.

It’s a means of self-protection, but it is the death of the feminine sweetness that is catnip to men.

Women always ask, “Why are men obsessed with younger women?”.

Because they feel scorned, they accuse healthy, heterosexual men of being “insecure”, “immature”, or worse.

When really, it’s just a chemical reaction, as natural as two magnets pulling toward each other.

Younger Women Boost Men’s Health

University studies have shown middle aged men’s testosterone levels shot up as much as 20%, after a short conversation with an attractive younger woman.

When married men have affairs with younger women, they report higher levels of happiness, well-being, and even increased sexual desire for their wives!

Just being in the presence of beautiful, younger women is a shot in the arm to a man.

I certainly felt that boost on my date that evening.

Best,

Soltiary Beast