Top 5 Habits of Guys Who Are Getting Laid More Than You
The Red Pill is keeping you single, lonely, depressed, and isolated from people in general, and women who would love and appreciate you.
Your ineffective habits, such as limiting beliefs, unrealistic expectations, and focusing on the wrong things is alienating you from the outcome you ultimately want: loving relationships with women.
As much as we clown “blue pilled betas” and “cucks”, many of these guys are undeniably having MORE SUCCESS with women than men who can quote The Rational Male word for word, and have seen every AMS video since 2018.
Often the target of derision, the dutiful husband, mild mannered step-father, and weak willed boyfriend who have to ask their girlfriend’s permission to make even small decisions, are often HAPPIER, more fulfilled, and GETTING LAID MORE frequently than frustrated guys binging red pill videos on Friday nights.
Men that are actually having relationships with women have completely different mindsets and behaviors than bitter Red Pill addicts, and those differences produce a totally separate set of results.
They sleep with girls you think are beneath you
Guys that are getting laid more than you have relaxed standards for the women in their lives.
These guys enthusiastically sleep with, and often date, and marry, bigger women, older women, and less traditionally attractive women.
I’ve witnessed this plenty of times.
Guys that brag about getting a lot of girls… fuck a lot of less attractive girls.
By the law of averages, there are few hotter women in the mix, and they tend to publicize those more.
However, many men that pride themselves on being “good with women” fill the majority of their rosters with women that are available and willing, but often below average, in terms of looks.
These types of guys don’t care as much about the girls’ appearance.
They’re more excited to be having fun and getting sex, than inspecting every aspect of the woman’s body, concentrating on her inevitable flaws.
They’ll show you a picture of a woman in her 50s, overweight, oddly shaped, or just funny looking.
When you try to tease them about dating less desirable women, they shrug it off, “OK, but she has huge boobs…” or “Well, I like her smile".
Guys that get laid more than you can appreciate something about almost any woman.
The benefits of this strategy (which I haven’t been able to employ yet myself, tbh) are that they get a lot of experience with women, it makes them non-needy, and they have a sense of abundance.
Guys who can be equally happy with a less attractive woman who’s making herself available, are less likely to act simpish and clingy when a beautiful woman comes around, and less willing to tolerate her bullshit.
This is inherently attractive and frankly, and easier way to live than getting laid only when your specific type of woman gives you the time of day.
Many of us in this corner of the internet believe ourselves to be “too good” for women who are less than Instagram model quality.
It’s great to have standards, but unrealistic to wait around for an imaginary future where a 22 year old swimsuit model falls in love with you.
Plenty of dudes in the Red Pill space will spend weekend after weekend alone, making lists of demands and “standards”, missing out on dating experiences, connection, and intimacy, with the women who are making themselves available to them now.
They’re Not Self Improving
90% of men getting laid more than you aren’t lean, aren’t jacked, don’t meditate, intermittent fast, or freeze their balls off jumping into cold showers.
They aren’t wealthy, they’re not celebrities, they have no special talents or skills.
Men getting laid more than you are simply having more fun.
They have more friends, they are more social, and, as I mentioned in my first point, they aren’t waiting for a perfect 10 model to show interest in them.
Guys that get laid appreciate the average or even below average looking women who are making themselves available, and prefer that to lonely nights scrolling pick up artist infield videos on Youtube.
The downside of continuous “self-improvement” is that it can make you feel judgmental toward people that aren’t: which is almost everybody.
That feeling of superiority causes men who haven’t had a date in 6 months to look down at married father, because he has a dad bod.
People can sense when you’re judging them for not “working on themselves”, and they don’t like it.
The self-righteous attitude of the perpetual “self-impr00ver” repels potential friends and turns off women who might otherwise be interested in you.
They’re non-judgmental
Men that aren’t getting laid spend more time creating laundry lists of requirements for women they date, than actually dating.
As I’ve said, it’s cool to have standards for yourself, however, being demanding only keeps you lonely.
In the real world, most people are flawed, average looking (at best), and have annoying quirks.
Additionally, women are the sexual selectors, not men.
As a typical man, you can only date the women that are willing to entertain you.
Starting off with a long list of dealbreakers is a great way to stay single and sexually frustrated.
You are flawed, and you will need someone else to accept your flaws, to ever have a shot at a loving relationship.
Bikini models and sundress clad trad wives are the stuff of fantasies, not reality, where the overwhelming majority of women in the US are feminist and leftist, have at least one child from a previous relationship, and almost 70% are either overweight, or obese.
You will be forced to compromise somewhere, or stay alone.
They don’t watch red pill content
Guys that actually have girlfriends and wives don’t watch RP podcasts, and think it’s weird that you do.
Being in relationships with women requires turning a blind eye to the harsh realities of female nature, even if you know it’s true.
Men who get laid have accepted the risks that come with romantic relationships, like a motorcyclist who wears a helmet and protective gear, and a boxer that wears a cup and mouthguard.
They would rather enjoy love and connection, accepting the fact that it’s inherently dangerous, than live their lives without intimacy and closeness.
They don’t use women’s looks for validation
Guys that get laid a lot are often confident in themselves, and put more value on their skill at getting women, than on the woman’s appearance.
They choose quantity over quality, at least in the short term.
As a result, they get more practice with charming and sleeping with women, and avoid the desperation of going months without sex.
Many of the most successful and famous men on earth have been in scandals with women most Red Pill guys would dismiss: Arnold Schwarzenegger and his middle aged Guatemalan housekeeper, Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky (a PAWG), Jeff Bezos marrying a 50 year old Lauren Sanchez, and many others.
Even the most powerful men in the world don’t let their standards keep them from a enjoying the company of a willing woman.
Conclusion
Red Pill content is as damaging to men as feminist ideas are to women.
the biggest problem is that guys think they will be able to self improve their way into having unlimited options with perfect looking women, and that simply isn’t true.
Even celebrities and athletes sleep with and date less attractive women.
When celebrities do get in relationships with very attractive women, they often get divorce raped and alienated from their children like anyone else. There are no perfect solutions.
You’re reading this as an average guy, and the clock is ticking.
No one is coming to save you.
Take your pick of the best woman you can actually get, and make the best of whatever life you have left to live.
Or don’t.
Stay locked in your basement, doing push ups in the dark, taking cold showers and hoping your ideal 10/ 10 model girlfriend will materialize in your bedroom.
It’s your life.