Why Women Hate Pick Up Artists

For someone who’s only seeking to improve himself, meet a fundamental biological desire, and not hurting anyone else, the Pick Up Artist gets a bad rap.

The modern “soyciety”, women and feminized beta males, hate the idea "pick up artists”.

Women hate him for having the audacity to make an effort to have sex with women; feminized men out of misplaced jealousy.

In modern female-centric society, men are only good as workhorse providers for businesses and women, not as individuals with the right to have separate goals and priorities.

The seduction community, mostly online, and comprised of various groups such as PUA and The Red Pill, is simply a group of men seeking to understand how to trigger sexual attraction in women.

As I’ve stated many times before, MOST men (Author Corey Wayne has suggested as many as 97%) don’t have a clue of what causes a woman to feel sexually attracted to one man over another.

In fact, men have been purposely deluded on the topic, by movies, music, and tv shows that portray beautiful women falling in love with weak, submissive nerds that “talk about their feelings”.

The misdirection is useful tool for women. They can easily qualify and separate men that “get it”, from dupes that fell for the con.

Looking For A Way Out

A man learning pick up is like a lab rat trying to escape a maze. He knows there is an alternate reality where he can be more than a docile test subject.

Society can’t function if too many men wake up, and detach themselves from commitments to corporate jobs and women.

Look at any Black American community as an example of the chaos that ensues when men aren’t around.

If women were capable of leading families and communities, Black neighborhoods wouldn’t be ugly, dilapidated war zones.

With so much at stake, society must discourage men from pursuing a life other than the role of dutiful husband and father.

Question Everything

Furthermore, once a man understands that he has been purposely lied to about women and sex, and that he actually has MUCH MORE success doing the OPPOSITE of what he was told to do in that area, he starts to question everything around him.

“Going against societal norms is such a massive game changer with women”, he thinks to himself,

“what other lies have I believed?”.

Women and the weak men that serve them, ridicule and shame men for making an effort to get good at having sex with women, as if there is something wrong with wanting to be a charming gentlemen that dates beautiful women.

They know that men will stop all this simping, for women, corporate jobs, consumerism, politics, and more, if the truth gets out.

Solipsism

The irony is that women love charming, sexy guys that they know have other women.

Women complain about men approaching them with cheesy lines and canned game, but when an attractive, confident, smooth man seduces them, their panties start tingling with excitement.

It doesn’t occur to women that men only become smooth and confident, qualities all women lust after, by having lots of practice with different women.

Women get offended when unconfident, awkward men they aren’t attracted to approach them.

A women is defined by the man she is attached to; she can’t tolerate a lower status man speaking to her.

That’s how “Pick Up Artists” get maligned.

When men are new to learning dating techniques, they can seem awkward and rehearsed.

It takes time to get comfortable with something new.

It feels wooden for the man at first, and that lack of confidence makes the woman uneasy.

In 6 months, or a year, once he has a few reps, and a few successful lays under his belt, he’s closer to the charming James Bond women fantasize about.

Reps

The only difference between the “creepy” guy doing day game, and the smooth guy that approached her in a coffee shop and sweeps her off her feet, is time.

The “creepy pick up artist” just needs practice.

Women don’t want to look behind the curtain and see how the trick is performed, they just want to enjoy it, like a children believing in Santa Claus.

In the Manosphere, we have a saying that women are “children with breasts”, and this is a perfect example.

Women can meet a man that find sexy and attractive, but if they find out that he learned those skills through concerted effort, that fact turns them off.

It’s like someone has shown them the secret to a magic trick, and ruined the fun for them.

They need to believe that a man is NATURALLY smooth and charming. That despite constant societal programming to the opposite, he just jumped out of the womb knowing how to get women into bed.

I am a student of seduction, pick up, and game.

I’ve spent hundreds or thousands of hours studying books, Youtube videos, and trying out techniques for myself.

I write a blog about my unique experiences with women and dating as an introvert, to help other men.

I’ve had two different women find out that I study this stuff, with disastrous results both times.

Women feel cheated when they learn that I practiced and put in effort to become a handsome man that is smooth with women.

In their childishness and solipsism, they can’t understand that men have been lied to their entire lives about women, and we have to seek the truth ON PURPOSE to find a way out.

It’s only “pick up” when they know it’s happening.

They’re only offended because they think I am doing “an act”, rather than simply learning what women like, and implementing those behaviors in my own unique personality.

In reality, this is how everyone learns to interact with others.

Children are taught to shake hands, say “please” and “thank you”, not hit other kids with toy trucks, etc.

We are all doing a series of behaviors and actions that we were taught by parents, teachers, and our families.

We all adjust our behaviors based on our environment.

I behave differently drinking beers in a pool hall with my brother than I do sitting at Christmas dinner with my grandmother, and so should you.

The behaviors we’ve been taught: being “nice” and “friendly” to women to get them to like you, don’t work.

It would be silly to keep doing the same actions that don’t work, over and over, and somehow expecting a different result.

Shout out to the men that are taking control of their sex lives by learning game and seduction.

Even if it feels awkward or terrifying at first, understand that everyone starts somewhere.

You can improved at dating and picking up women, with practice, no matter who you are or where you start.

Don’t be discouraged by women who don’t know what they want anyway.

No one can do it for you.

Good luck.

-Solitary Beast