How to Meet Your Next Ex-Girlfriend
In his book, Manhood Made Simple, author Devin Stone wrote, simply
Dating is a social activity.
I wholeheartedly agree.
As a result, questions like:
"Where should I go/ what should I do to meet women?"
are misguided, and putting the cart before the horse.
Going out looking for women is a waste of time.
First, women can SMELL the thirsty, needy energy of a man prowling the streets, looking for a skirt to chase.
It turns them off at best, and creeps them out, at worst.
Second, women don’t want to be the focus of you attention.
A woman wants to be able to enter YOUR WORLD as a man.
This is why a woman who likes you asks a million questions about you, wants to meet all your friends, and even wears your old sweatshirts. (Sign of high interest if she does, 🚩 if she doesn't.)
The Opposite
The BEST way to bring more, and better women into your life, is to the opposite of what you THINK you should be doing.
Instead of marching out of your house, on a mission to “Find A Woman”,
it's FASTER,
MORE EFFECTIVE,
AND MORE FULFILLING,
as a man for you to CREATE
the exciting life you have always dreamed of living, and meet women naturally and organically that way.
Stone puts it like this:
"If you are struggling with women,
it means that you are simply not participating in enough dominance hierarchies,
and you have not established yourself in the proper hierarchy that is right for you."
Dominance Hierarchy Dating
Establishing yourself within a hierarchy is the most effective way to create a consistent flow of interesting, compatible women into your life.
Along with the added benefit of increasing your social circle, relationships with other men as friends, and potentially as business and professional contacts.
If you are not currently involved in compelling social functions, your goal for the next 3- 6 months is to figure out what types of hobbies interest you, and get involved in those.
Do NOT do this to meet women.
Frankly, women don't tend to have interesting hobbies.
If you limit yourself to groups that attract high numbers of females, you will find yourself at watch parties for Real Housewives of Orange County.
Instead, discover and nurture interests you have always been curious about.
How to Meet Your Next Ex-Girlfriend
Dating apps are a lot like casinos in Vegas.
Everyone "knows a guy" who won big at the tables, got upgraded to the Presidential suite, and came home with thousands in winnings.
Everyone's best friend's cousin's step-brother met his wife on Tinder (6 years ago).
In reality, many men go months without even getting a match on apps, not to mention one they would actually date.
It's more likely that you, as an average guy, will meet some bros at the climbing gym, then one of them will invite you to a Super Bowl party, and you'll hit it off with his female co-worker at half time.
Not only will you gain a few solid friends, you'll also have a pool of women to select from for dating and sex.
Your Heroic Mission
As a man, your heroic mission is to figure out what unique gifts you have been given, develop them, then use those talents to serve other men.
As you pursue this mission, you will find
Meaning
Focus
and Purpose for being on this planet.
Women come into your life as sugary icing on a cake (the pleasure is just as bad for your health, and the enjoyment just as fleeting)
You will be more fulfilled as a man, and more attractive to women, when you are concentrating on a motivation higher than briefly lying on top of a woman.
Apply To Work With Me
As a man, you were BORN with all the tools to MEET, ATTRACT, and SEDUCE beautiful women.
Society has conditioned men AWAY from our natural strengths, in some weird psyop to make men WEAK, LONELY, and ISOLATED.
If you are ready:
To BREAK those chains
OVERCOME limiting beliefs, &
Connect with your NATURAL ABILITY to MAGNETICALLY ATTRACT women, apply for a free Strategy Session with me, at the link below:
During this free call, we discuss your current relationships with women, any challenges you are experiencing, and create an action plan to build the relationship and dating life you really want.
Talk soon,
Ashley