Give Women What They Want
In this post, we’re discussing why you should Give Women What They Want, and I’ll give you a hint: (because it’s the easiest way for YOU to get what you want with women).
Let me explain.
Most men have an exact type of woman, or women, that they ideally want to bring into their lives.
As an International Attraction Coach, I speak to men of all ages, and all over the world on this topic every day.
Men that I speak to can describe their dream woman in every detail:
hair color
eye color
body type
personality
skin complexion
I’m no different.
Personally, I can describe my own perfect woman down to an ideal height, skin tone, personality, even cup size.
Your Ideal Woman
It’s good for men to identify what they want in a woman, so you can recognize her when you see her.
When we think about our dream woman (or women), we also have to realize that this perfect woman also has her own set of qualities and characteristics that SHE idealizes in a man as well.
For example, if you decide that you want a rocker chick: a woman sleeved up with colorful tattoos, black eyeliner, black boots, and ripped jeans, etc.,
you’re going to have a much easier time getting close to her, if you LOOK LIKE the type of man she’s attracted to.
Buy a motorcycle, get some tats, a leather jacket,… a little prison time wouldn’t hurt either, if you can swing it.
By contrast, if you decide to go the opposite direction, and you want a sweet, conservative, church girl, ask yourself, “What type of guy would this woman fall for?”,
then make it your mission to dress, speak, and behave accordingly.
By showing up as the man that the women you like want, you start playing the game of seduction, dating, and sex on recruit mode.
Become The Man
Yes, there are exceptions to every rule.
Yes, (sometimes) opposites attract.
However, for the most part, people tend to like people who are like them: similar values, hobbies, interests, cultural backgrounds, etc.
I’ve said before,
“To get anything you want, become the man who has it.”
The men who have the things that you want, career, cars, women, money, etc. are doing certain behaviors, and you can model, or emulate them, in order to shortcut to that same success.
Examples
If you want six pack abs, you need to change your lifestyle, often dramatically, and model the daily habits and choices of men who have ripped, six pack abs.
This typically includes weight training, cardio, and tracking calories.
If you want to be a UFC fighter, you’ll need to train for hours every day: running, sparring, and getting punched in the face by dudes with the muscle mass of adult male gorillas, FOR YEARS.
The aspiring medical doctor, Navy SEAL, astronaut, and so on, each understand that accomplishing such a tremendous goal will require massive changes to every aspect of his life, fundamentally transforming who he is as a man.
Too Much Work?
To some men, this sounds like “Too much work” or “Acting fake”.
“Why can’t she just like me for who I am?”, the losers whine.
That is a childish, naive, and selfish mentality.
As a man, you should understand that no one is ever going to GIVE you anything you don’t deserve, least of all women, and they shouldn’t.
There’s no fun in that anyway.
The best part of the journey of getting to what you want: whether that’s in business, in fitness, in your social circles, or with women, is the adventure of developing yourself as this new man.
The plain reality is this:
If you don’t like the situation you currently have, you need to change.
Or you’ll keep getting the same results, over and over, growing more and more frustrated, lonely, and insecure every day.